Xin Nian Kuai Le, Bitchez!

OK.  It’s the real New Year’s, and it’s time to party like it’s 1999.  You haven’t done New Year’s until you’ve attended a Chinese (or in my case, Taiwanese) New Year’s Party.  You get there at eight when the party’s supposed to start, and then you sit on your asses and wait.  And wait.  And… Continue Reading

The Unbearable Darkness of Being

Today, over at Balloon Juice, Cole posted about a commenter who had recently killed herself shortly after her beloved killed himself.  I think her commenting tapered off before I started frequenting the site because her name only vaguely rings a bell. The reason I am blogging about this is because her last note (on one… Continue Reading

Waiting for Godot (Lauryn Hill), Part I

Last night, I had the chance to be cool.  This is very unusual for me since I have lived a life of ultimate un-coolness.  My best friend emailed me a few weeks ago and said she could get tickets to the Lauryn Hill show.  Was I in?  Let me think.  I like Lauryn Hill’s music… Continue Reading

A Study in Contrast

A long long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away–oh, wait.  Scratch that.  Let me start again.  A long time ago, I was at an APLB (Asian and Pacific Islander Lesbian and Bisexual Women) conference in MN.  This was right after I came out (but several years after I realized I was attracted to… Continue Reading

Happy New Year and Shit

2010 is about to be history.  Gone, in the blink of both eyes.  2011 is on the way in, and she looks to be a feisty one.   I ruminated in my last post as to how fast this year went.  And, now as is my wont, I am looking back over the year to… Continue Reading